I wrote this just recently, but I seem to need to read and hear it again. I figure if I need it, maybe someone else needs to hear it. This is the first morning for a while I haven't woken with dread manifesting in my chest after a few seconds of wakefulness. I have peace. God has been inviting me again into His presence. Messages over and over fill my heart. I want to be content in all things. Philippians 4:13 reminds me, I can with Christ's strength. My mind will tell me, but my body will stop me from feeling it. I keep praying and pushing in. Jesus invites us all to sit with Him. The picture is a bistro set on a busy State Street, that I took. I love the color and in Cherokee green is a healing color- I'll tell that story sometime. Sit with Jesus a while and be healed.
In Summer Triangle, my main character, Maria,
wrestles with control of her family. I, as a mother, incorporated my own
desiring of control. I wanted the clean home, but always fought that
battle with time in, working full time. Maria controlled her home when
she was able to go part time. But she still worried about her children.
As a mother I feel responsible for the family's health, happiness,
future and being godly adults.
I was talking about my dad
yesterday to a co-worker. The stress of healthcare leads sometimes to
unhealthy habits. He was going to smoke a cigarette. Surprised, I asked
him about this, as I didn't think he smoked. He doesn't, but when stress
takes over, he gives in. I recalled my senior year of nursing school,
with my mother seeming to be dying, planning a wedding anyways and the
pressure of nursing, I turned to Virginia Slims. Yet, the habit never
stuck because my dad in his nonjudgmental manner kept it from taking
over me. Dad was like Aslan, he could attack, but mostly he controlled
it with love. We knew that, not with a fear, but respect of his power as
As an adult, when David and I lived with my parents for a
time, I sat at the breakfast table with Dad one morning, alone. He could
hardly articulate his fear. He couldn't control life or how he may be
as an old man, if his mind went. Having to place his mother-in-law in a
nursing home weighed on him. As a family, though, with his wife also in
ill health, Grandma couldn't live at home any more. I think he also
remembered great Uncle Dave, an ornery old man at times, a bachelor who
tried to rule our house.
Jacob, from the Bible, also comes to my
thoughts. I read the account of his return to his homeland. He worried
about meeting his brother, scheming and planning the approach. Esau, ran
to his brother with open arms. As my children were young, I shielded
them from the world, when maybe I should have embraced people more.
Would more people have known Jesus if I hadn't hid? A convicting moment
stirred up thoughts that morning.
The last few years show me what I
always said, God is in control. We pray, but we don't control God. He
wants to hear from us, but He still knows the whole scope. He knows the
vase He is forming. We are to yield.
I read Job in the Bible, too,
many times, trying to figure this all out. Hard times come. Like Job,
we do want to know why. Job was not a silent sufferer. A cosmic bet in
the first two chapters threw Job's controlled life into turmoil. At the
end of the book, God does not have to explain Himself and we are not to
explain Him, either. A life of control never promised. Yet, in a belief,
Job prays for his friends and he is blessed. Even if we are not blessed
in this life, we are to obey God and care for others.
encountered a storm of large proportions. She questions religion, faith
and God. In her anger, any words about faith would not comfort, like
they do for believers. But sometimes, those words ring hallow for
believers, too, if we are honest. One lesson I learned from reading Job
so many times, is his friends should have just remained silent. We offer
a hand, our hearts, but words are overrated.
Psalm 131:2 But I
have stilled and quieted myself, just as a small child is quiet with its
mother. Yes like a small child is my soul within me.
we must be like a child to enter the Kingdom of God. We need to quiet
ourselves to hear the peace and comfort from God. Quit asking, "Are we
there yet?" Relax and trust Dad to know where we are going.