Re-posting. Originally written in 2012.
Twenty four years ago, we had a very wet, gloomy October. I had just
found out I was pregnant with Katie. We were moving into our house, but
still living at my parents while they traveled south to Florida. David
and I would go to our new house, and I ended up laying on the couch
sleeping. I couldn't believe how tired a little life could make me. I
worked full time afternoons in ICU, also.
Halloween Day, the sun
shone brightly. I got a burst of energy, dusting every thing that had
been moved from one and a half years storage. I even wanted to walk to
Taco Bell, but we decided we didn't have time.
Mom and Dad were
back from their trip. Dad, already set up to treat the trick-ers, stood
at their front door. I love to watch the children trotting up the
street. I felt great as I entered the living room to be with Dad. Then I
felt something funny, wet between my legs, and I discreetly went to our room. Blood
between my legs. I panicked.
I called my doctor immediately as my
pregnancy was only a month along. The nurse, an older, wizened nurse,
calmly told me to lay down, right now. I was only get up to the bathroom
for forty eight hours. Oh, boy, I was scared.
We hadn't told my
parents, or David's, either. His parents had planned to come that
weekend to help us move and settle into our new house. We planned to
announce our wonderful news at dinner on Saturday. I told David, "You
have to tell my dad. I never stayed in bed this long, even when I was
David looked at me quizzically.
"You have to," I reinforced my demand.
also knew my dad would pray. I wasn't a fervent prayer at that time. I
was in one of those dips of doing things my way with just a nod to God.
brother and wife, Ray and Kathy with their two young boys still made
the trip to the Valley to see her parents, her relatives and us. I
instructed David to tell them as well. I knew they would pray.
and Megan came upstairs to see me. Megan's eyes round as saucers, in
her costume, either a witch or Indian. Jody sat on the bed and talked.
She had directed me to this obstetrician, so we chatted about him and his nurse.
The next day, my dad popped his head in the door, "So, you got yourself pregnant?"
"Dad, I wanted to."
"I know. What can I get you to eat?"
few days later, I got a card from Ray's mens prayer group at his
church in Indiana, Pennsylvania. Sixty men signed a card that they had
prayed for me the next day after the Ray Lyon's had been here. That tan
card that sixty men signed signified a great power to me.
the initial complete bed rest, I was allowed to go downstairs once a day
and back upstairs once a day. Mrs. Voisey, the doctor's nurse advised
me, "Just look at the dust and say isn't that a pretty pattern."
was more tired after that week of inactivity than if I worked hard.
Going back to the unit was hard at first. The greatest moment was a week
later, hearing the baby's heartbeat for the first time with the
Doppler. The scare was over. I counted the prayers, but still had not
become a praying woman.